Imagine for a moment about a boy/girl you love and want to spend your life with him/her. Now think why would the other partner love and spend the entire life with you. The answer is nothing but trust. If you are a faithful, trustworthy, loyal person and love someone, your relation would last long. However, if you are not an honest, loyal person, your relationship would not last a day. Remember that ‘Trust matters more than love in a relationship.’
How you can gain someone’s trust?
Successful relationships rely on strong faith. Gaining a person’s trust is not an easy task and can take a long time. If you too want to become a trustworthy person, behave like one. Here is what you need to do.
Always do what you say: Gaining the trust of a person by saying that you will do something for him has become very common these days. Making a promise to do something is not a bad thing, but not keeping it could be one. Whether it is a small thing or task, you should do it at any cost. When you say something and never do it, people lose their faith in you and think twice before trusting you again.
Speak Truth: If you wish to become a trustworthy person in life, be honest first. No individual would ever trust a person who is a liar. Speaking false things or lies is not a good way to represent your life or yourself in front of others.
Never reveal anyone’s secrets: A trustworthy person would never disclose what others say and share with him. Furthermore, exposing someone else’s secrets to another person is the worst thing that you can do to an individual who trusts you. When you do so, it is treachery of trust.
Make a promise only if you can complete it: When you break somebody’s trust, it is not at all an easy thing to gain it back or build it again. Moreover, doing so can deeply hurt the feelings of that person who believes you. If you are feeling sorry for what you did and again want to gain the trust of the same person, apologize to him and promise that you will not repeat the same again.
Want to learn some more ways to build and improve trust, well here is what you should do. Mentioned below are some simple ways that you can follow to become a trustworthy person in life.
- Be honest always.
- Be loyal.
- Be original and do not pretend in showing off.
- Be clearing, not confusing.
- Take things seriously, especially when someone is speaking.
- Look in a person’s eye while talking.
- Take time, but explain things properly.
- Learn to give correct feedback.
- Never interrupt.
- Do not forget to trust others as well.
Help your friends as well as family members to improve their faith in others by making the use of below-mentioned quotes and sayings on trust as a status on WhatsApp Messenger.
It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than not to trust – Samuel Johnson
Never trust anything that can think for itself if you can’t see where it keeps its brain. – J.K. Rowling
The trust of the innocent is the liar’s most useful tool. – Stephen King
He who does not trust enough, will not be trusted. – Lao Tzu
Men trust their ears less than their eyes. – Herodotus
Learning to trust is one of the life’s most difficult tasks. – Isaac Watts
Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do. – Benjamin Spock
When trust improves, the mood improves. – Fernando Flores
Trust in yourself. Your perceptions are often far more accurate than you are willing to believe. – Claudia Black